3D Love Story
Infidelity, cheating and fickle relationships are on an all time high. The atrocity of modern human bondings pricks the foundation of human emotions.
Most of these relationships are born out of an urge to be in a “love-setup”. So, without giving the parameters a lot of thought, people venture into another person’s heart with a lot excitement. There is expectation of warmth and sex by default. But minimal expectations are set for themselves.
Here begins the amusement ride.
- Meet-ups called dates.
- Food outings called candle-light dinners.
- Birthday gifts called showing love.
- Hugs and kisses called getting closer.
- Long walks called dreaming together.
- Tele-fights called knowing each other better.
- Boredom called ‘break-up’
In some cases these usual activities actually nurture the bond. However, most cases get typecast and fall prey to the urban-love-fashion.
Even that’s ok. The real test begins once the joy ride is over.
Those with a strength of character will ponder, worry and mostly figure out the solution. This will not guarantee the success of the relationship but will ensure that the people understand the bond that they have.
But those who are naive, impatient, troubled, desperate or plain casual will fail to see through the problems. And in an attempt to get-over or ignore the frustration, they will add a new dimension to the bonding (temporarily called the love-triangle). However, eventually the new dimension is supposed to stretch and break the old one. This leads to the live-burial of the puppy-love and air-launch of the dirty-affair.
In the urban-dictionary, this is called a ‘rebound affair’. Whatever the term be, it’s infidelity. And this infidelity is not towards the other person but to the whole idea of love, warmth, surrender and a deep wholesome experience. Most of us come out of a relationship via insulting pair-bonding to a great degree.
Both the success and failure of a relationship are healthy. In case of a successful one, you are rewarded with an indefinible experience for as long as you want. In case of failure, entities leave with a lot of learning which in turn benefits future ventures.
However, under the weakness of charater the by-product is a 3D love story. People cheat, people are unfaithful, people ‘can’ fall weak. But it’s atrocious when they justify it and cover it up. Reasons such as ‘lack of faith and uncertainity in the relationship that drove them to newer avenues’ are commonly used then.
What you get as a result is deranged human beings who would’ve forever lost the gift of love. The species of midget-minds spreads like virus. It propagates through time and makes up for a dark story for the future generations. Howeve, It’s a pity that it’s inevitable.
We may bring world peace one day but true-love is a quest forever.